Study or Love? Why the right decision is most important in student life.

Student life is the most important period in a person's life. The decisions made during this period make or break their future life. Nowadays, a big question in the lives of students is - studies or love? Many people fall into this dilemma and deviate from their main goal, the consequences of which they have to suffer for the rest of their lives. Why do problems start if they do well in studies? We often notice that when a boy or girl does well in studies, the crowd around them increases. Especially friends of the opposite sex start showing more interest. Again, many times boys chase girls and try to get attention. If the expected response is not received in this situation, then depression, damage to self-esteem, hesitation and mental instability are born in the mind. This directly affects their studies. How does the hesitation in love ruin their studies? In the case of many students, it is seen - first, attention decreases, then they lose interest in studies, at one stage they get bad results in exams and even decide to quit their studies. According to research and practical experience, almost all students suffer from love-related problems at some point in their lives. At least some of these students stop their studies completely, which is very sad. Is love wrong? No, but time is important. Love is not a crime. It is a natural human feeling. But the problem arises when love starts controlling the goals of life. Our main task in student life is to prepare ourselves and acquire skills and prepare for the future. At this time, decisions taken under the influence of emotions often become lifelong regrets. If we study today, the future will be better. We should remember that if we study well today and make ourselves competent, then better opportunities will come in front of us in the future. It is true for both boys and girls that in the future we can get a more beautiful, more competent, more mentally mature person as a life partner. Therefore, it is not wise to give up our studies because of temporary neglect or rejection. We often forget the dreams of our parents and our responsibilities. The sacrifices of our parents, their dreams, their expectations on us. We do not live only for ourselves. We also have a responsibility towards our family, society and country. By studying, a person not only builds his own life, but also acquires the ability to do something for his family and society. What should we do when we are disappointed? Failure in love can come - no one can care, relationships can break, there can be misunderstandings, but for these reasons - ending yourself and moving away from studies is never a solution. Rather, what is needed at this time is - confidence, patience, strengthening your goals. Conclusion Love can come in student life, but that is not the end of life. Studies should be the first priority. Today's hard work is tomorrow's success. Even if you are upset, do not give up studies. Remember - your future is in your hands. Author: Md. Nasir (English Version)